The New Man Codes | Kings of Compassion

Kings Of Compassion
Presents

The New
Man Codes

A small group program for men who are done settling

4 June 2026 · Thursdays · 60 min live · 29 October 2026

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Something in you brought you here.
Not curiosity. Not boredom.

Something deeper. A knowing that has been quietly building beneath the surface of the life you have built and the man you have become.

Maybe it shows up as a restlessness you can't shake. A sense that no matter how much you achieve, there is a ceiling you keep hitting. Maybe it's the distance you feel from the people you love most, even when you're right there in the room. Maybe it's a kind of exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix, because it's not your body that's tired.

It's the version of you that you've been carrying since you were a boy. And it is still running the show.

You've done the podcasts. You've read the books. You've pushed harder. And still something hasn't shifted. Because the problem was never effort. The problem is that no amount of strategy can reach what is buried in the places you haven't yet had the courage to look.

That word. Courage. We are going to come back to it again and again across this page.

Because the men who change are not the ones who found the right information. They are the ones who found the bravery to be honest with themselves, to stop managing the surface and to go to the root. That is a different kind of strength. And it is the only kind that creates lasting change.

That thing you're feeling right now? That low hum of there has to be more than this?

That is not weakness. That is your fire asking you to stop settling.

The Program

The New Man Codes is a 5-month group program for a small circle of men who are ready to be brave enough to change.

This work matters to Mish more than she can put into words. She has dedicated her life to it. She has seen what it does to men, to their families, to the rooms they walk into when they come back to themselves. Every single session, every week, every challenge in this program is designed with one intention: your real, lasting, irreversible transformation. Not incremental change. Not feel-good content. The results you have been reading on this page are what this work produces when a man shows up with courage and commits fully.

Why a group

You don't grow alone.
You never did.

For thousands of years, across every indigenous culture on earth, boys did not become men alone. They were gathered together, witnessed by their elders and by each other, and guided through an initiation. The community was not incidental to that process. The community was the process. Being seen by other men, held accountable by other men, and watching other men move through what you are moving through, that is what made the transformation real and permanent.

Most men assume they need one-to-one work. And while one-to-one support has enormous value, the truth that men discover inside this group surprises almost all of them. They grow faster in a group. They go deeper in a group. Because when you hear another man speak the thought you have been too afraid to say out loud, something unlocks. When you watch a man beside you do the brave thing, you find the courage to do it yourself. When you are witnessed in your truth by a room full of men who are in it with you, it lands differently than anything you could experience alone.

This is your initiation. Not a course. Not a seminar. A witnessed passage into the next version of who you are.

From the men who came before you

Real results.
Real men.

"My life upgraded in every sense of the word. I started with me and then it shaped my external. I got out of a relationship that wasn't truthful for me, built a beautiful business partnership, moved into a new gorgeous place. Every single aspect of my life changed. Before working together I was broke, in debt, in a horrible relationship. In less than six months I was making $130k a month in a brand new business."

— Gab, Entrepreneur

"I had constant headaches at a 7 to 9 out of 10, every single day for a year. My body was in constant fight-or-flight mode. In three weeks back at work after we started, I did what I would normally do in two to three years in revenue. At 60% capacity."

— Per, Senior Executive

"I went from stuck not scoring, afraid to scoring my first professional hat-trick against the best team in Switzerland in front of my parents and my 94-year-old grandfather. I play out of courage now. Not fear."

— Theo, Professional Footballer

"I was at the point where I had decided I did not want to be here anymore. I thought about ending my life. And then something made me reach out. What I found was that I was worth far more than the story I had been telling myself. I am still here. My kids still have their dad. And I wake up every day now knowing I took the wheel back."

— Adrian, Dedicated Dad

"I was stuck in survival mode. Business collapse, breakup, babies. I broke the unconscious patterns. New business went to $100K per month in 3 months. The shift is priceless."

— Brendan, Entrepreneur

5 Months Together

60 Minute Live Calls

Thurs Every Week

Small Group by Design

✓ Replay Available

What you will move through

The Journey

Each month builds on the last. Tools stack. Patterns dissolve. By the end you will not recognize the ceiling you were living under.

Month 1

Foundation

This is where it all begins. You will meet the other men in your group, set your intentions and create an accountability partnership with a fellow member who will walk the journey alongside you.

You will understand for the first time exactly why change has felt so hard. Not because you lack willpower or discipline, but because of how your brain is actually wired. Once you see this clearly the resistance stops feeling like a personal failing and starts feeling like something you can finally work with.

You will also begin to understand where you are in your development as a man, what that means for how you show up in your relationships and your work, and what becomes available to you when you stop performing and start leading from the inside out.

Month 2

Inner Leadership

You cannot lead a business, a family or a relationship from the outside if the inside is running on old unchecked patterns. This month you will identify the parts of yourself that have been quietly in charge and decide consciously which version of you gets to lead going forward.

You will learn how the words you use every day, with yourself and with others, are either building your reality or quietly dismantling it. And you will put a daily practice in place that keeps your nervous system steady, your focus sharp and your energy pointed at what actually matters to you.

By the end of this month you will have stopped reacting and started responding. That is a different man entirely.

Month 3

Navigating Conflict

Most men either blow up or go quiet when things get difficult. Both cost them. This month you will finally understand the patterns that pull you into conflict and keep you stuck there, and you will learn how to step out of them without blowing up the relationship in the process.

You will learn how to set boundaries that honor who you are, not boundaries that come from anger or fear, but ones that come from a clear, grounded sense of what you will and will not accept. Boundaries that actually hold because they are rooted in self respect rather than reaction.

You will build the ability to hold a firm position while keeping the conversation open. To say what needs to be said without saying too much. To stop abandoning yourself in the moments that matter most.

By the end of this month difficult conversations will no longer be something you dread. They will be where you build trust and earn respect.

Month 4

Emotions as Your Superpower

You were never taught that your emotional state is information. You were taught to manage it, suppress it or push through it. This month changes all of that.

You will learn to read what is actually driving your decisions beneath the surface and shift it deliberately. Your emotions stop controlling you and start working for you. You will know when to push, when to pause and when something inside is pointing you toward or away from a decision. Other men call it instinct. You will know exactly how to use it.

You will also uncover why so many high performing men feel stuck and unseen despite doing everything right, and where that pattern actually started. Most men say this is the month they finally understand themselves.

Month 5

Communication and Roots

This final month ties everything together. You will walk away with a clear, practiced ability to communicate in the moments that matter most. When something is breaking down. When trust needs rebuilding. When you need to be heard without shutting the room down or walking away from it.

And then we go to the root. Because beneath every pattern we have explored across this program there is a story that started long before you were old enough to question it. Understanding that story, with compassion rather than blame, is what makes everything else permanent rather than temporary.

This is not the hardest month. It is the most freeing.

5 to 8 November

Activating Your Power
Men's Retreat

Five months of transformation deserves to be celebrated with the men who stood beside you through every week of it.

Four days at Healing Acres, Chandler Oklahoma ▶, a luxury setting in nature and the final chapter of your five months together. No healing sessions. No curriculum. Just the space to reflect on how far you have come, with the men who walked every step of this beside you.

The experiences have been carefully curated to bring you back into your body and back into community. Time in nature. Movement sessions. Extraordinary food. Moments of stillness. Each one designed not to push you forward, but to let you land fully in where you already are.

This is the celebration you have earned. Shared with a curated community of high-value men who showed up, did the work and came out the other side.

I realized everything was coming from my childhood. I had spent three years telling my psychologist we didn't need to go there. That I'd had a perfectly normal childhood. It turned out to be the most powerful work I have ever done in my life.

— Per, Senior Executive

Honest Words

This is for you.
This is not.

This is for you if:

You have the courage to look honestly at what has not been working, not to judge yourself, but because you are ready to change it
You are high-performing on the outside and know there is a gap between who you are at work and who you are at home
You have a history of pushing through but your body, your relationships or your results are sending signals you can no longer ignore
You are brave enough to ask for support and wise enough to know that doing so is a sign of strength not weakness
You want to give back. To be the kind of man, father, partner and leader who actually changes the rooms he walks into
You are done performing and ready to become
You understand that the cost of staying exactly as you are is far greater than the discomfort of going deeper
You want to break cycles that started long before you understood what they were, and you are willing to be brave enough to face them

This is not for you if:

You are looking for a quick fix or a motivational injection that fades by Monday
You want someone to hand you answers without being willing to do any honest internal work yourself
You are not yet ready to be truthful with yourself. This work requires courage and the courage starts with honesty
You believe that asking for help makes you less of a man. That story is exactly what keeps men stuck and it is not welcome here
You want to observe from the sidelines. The men who transform are the ones who decide, fully and without condition, that they are in
You are looking for comfort. This program will challenge you. That is the point

The Investment

Your place in this program.
Yours for $3,000.

The full value of The New Man Codes program is $10,000. But only $3,000 is being asked of you. The remaining $7,000 is fully covered by a scholarship.

That scholarship exists because of one man. A man who went through this work and was so profoundly changed by what he experienced that he wanted to make it possible for others to follow. He is going first. And he is funding the path so that a group of men who might never have said yes at full price, can now walk through the door.

This is what transformation does when it lands in the right man. It does not stay with him. It moves through him. And now it is moving toward you.

Full Program Value

$10,000

Scholarship Covers

$7,000

Your Investment

$3,000

This covers your place in the program and your attendance at the Men's Retreat at Healing Acres, Oklahoma.

Activating Your Power Men's Retreat · Healing Acres, Oklahoma ▶

Included in your investment is four days at Healing Acres ▶, our partner in Oklahoma, a luxury facility set in nature and dedicated to exceptional outdoor experiences for men.

Nature walks. Adventure activities. Extraordinary food. An alcohol and substance free environment where men can breathe, connect and simply be. No agenda. No performance. Just the company of men who did the work.

You will be among the first men to have done this. That matters. These are the brave ones. The ones who went first so others could follow. The retreat is where you get to celebrate that — together.

Places are strictly limited. When the scholarship allocation is filled, it is closed.

From the men themselves

What they would say
to you, right now.

"Don't be so stubborn and I mean that seriously. Once you decide to have better for yourself, better is going to come. Doing this work doesn't mean you're not strong. In fact it improves your strength. It changed my life. I'm sure it'll change yours."

— Theo, Professional Footballer

"I would 100% recommend it. But you have to commit. If you commit halfway, don't do it. This is not a basic program. This is advanced for men who are actually ready to do the real thing. Come prepared to be honest with yourself."

— Per, Senior Executive

"If you want to change your life, start here. She has cracked the code so you don't have to go through all the dark nights of the soul yourself. She took one for the team. She went through the darkness and came back with a map. So we don't have to."

— Gab, Entrepreneur

"I felt like I could reconnect with who I actually was as a child, which is your purest form. We went back. We rewrote the story. And I finally got to step out of the armour I had been wearing for decades. That's where the lightness comes from."

— George, Business Owner

Who is leading this

Mish.
A woman who coaches men.

That is intentional.

Because the version of you that you are afraid to show in front of other men, you will find the safety to bring it here.

Mish has given her life to this work. Not as a career move. Not as a business strategy. Because she has seen, over and over again, what happens to a man when he finally stops managing his pain and starts moving through it. She has watched men go from the edge of burnout, the edge of divorce, the edge of giving up entirely, to becoming the most present, powerful and purposeful versions of themselves. And every single time, it moves her.

Every week, every session, every challenge she designs for this program is built from a place of genuine, deep, unwavering investment in your outcome. She shows up fully. She prepares thoroughly. She thinks about her clients between sessions. She cares about your results the way a great coach cares about their team. Not just during sessions. All of the time.

She has worked with professional athletes, business owners, fathers navigating divorce, men on the edge of burnout and men who had privately stopped believing things could change. Every single one of them will tell you the same thing. It was the hardest work they have ever done. And they would not take it back for anything.

She is not interested in your performance. She is interested in you. The real you. And she will hold that version of you with more conviction than you may currently hold it yourself.

She taught me that you can't do this work and stay the same. It started in here and then everything out there started to shift. Every aspect of my life changed since the very first call.

— Gab, Entrepreneur

The invitation

Are you
brave enough?

Not brave enough to be perfect. Brave enough to be honest. Brave enough to say something in you needs to change and to take one step toward finding out what that looks like.

The men who get the most from this program are not the ones who had it all figured out when they arrived. They are the ones who showed up, told the truth and stayed.

If something in this page has moved something in you, that is not a coincidence. That is your knowing. Trust it.

Apply to Join The New Man Codes

Program begins 4 June 2026
Runs to 29 October 2026
Thursdays
60 minutes per call
Replay available
Small group only

This is the work.

Kings Of Compassion
Presents

The NewMan Codes

For men who are done settling

4 June 2026
Thursdays · 60 min live
Ends 29 October 2026

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Something in you brought you here. Not curiosity. Not boredom.

You've pushed harder. Read the books. Done the podcasts. And still something hasn't shifted.

Because the problem was never effort. It was never reaching the places you haven't yet had the courage to look.

That feeling right now? That is your fire asking you to stop settling.

The Program

A 5-month group program for men brave enough to change.

This work matters to Mish more than she can put into words. Every session is built with one intention: your real, lasting, irreversible transformation.

Why a group

You don't grow alone.
You never did.

Across every indigenous culture, boys became men through witnessed initiation. Not alone. Together.

Men grow faster in a group. When you hear another man say what you've been afraid to say, something unlocks. When you watch someone beside you do the brave thing, you find the courage yourself.

This is your initiation. Not a course. Not a seminar. A witnessed passage into the next version of who you are.

From the men who came before you

Real results.
Real men.

"Broke, in debt, bad relationship. Less than 6 months later: $130k a month in a brand new business. Every aspect of my life changed."

— Gab, Entrepreneur

"Daily headaches for a year. Back at work 3 weeks later, I did what normally takes me 2-3 years in revenue. At 60% capacity."

— Per, Senior Executive

"Went from stuck and afraid to scoring my first professional hat-trick. I play out of courage now. Not fear."

— Theo, Professional Footballer

"I was at the point where I had decided I did not want to be here anymore. I am still here. My kids still have their dad."

— Adrian, Dedicated Dad

"Survival mode. Business collapse, breakup, babies. New business went to $100K/month in 3 months. The shift is priceless."

— Brendan, Entrepreneur

5 Months

60 Min Live Calls

Thurs Every Week

✓ Replay Available

What you will move through