Kings of Compassion Presents
The New
Man Codes
A small group programme for men who are done settling
Apply NowSomething in you brought you here.
Not curiosity. Not boredom.
Something deeper. Something that has been quietly building for a while now.
Maybe it shows up as a restlessness you can't shake. A sense that no matter how much you achieve, there is a ceiling you keep hitting. Maybe it's the distance you feel from the people you love most, even when you're right there in the room. Maybe it's a kind of exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix, because it's not your body that's tired.
It's the version of you that you've been carrying since you were a boy.
You've done the podcasts. You've read the books. You've pushed harder. And still something hasn't shifted.
That thing you're feeling right now? That low hum of there has to be more than this?
That is the beginning of everything.
The Programme
The New Man Codes is a 5-month group programme for a small circle of high-performing men ready to do the deepest, most liberating work of their lives.
Not therapy. Not another course that sits in your downloads folder.
This is live, weekly coaching that rewires the code you have been running on since childhood, so that what you build on the outside finally matches who you are becoming on the inside.
From the men who came before you
Real results.
Real men.
"My life upgraded in every sense of the word. I started with me and then it shaped my external. I got out of a relationship that wasn't truthful for me, built a beautiful business partnership, moved into a new gorgeous place. Every single aspect of my life changed. Before working together I was broke, in debt, in a horrible relationship. In less than six months I was making $130k a month in a brand new business."โ Gab, Entrepreneur
"I had constant headaches at a 7 to 9 out of 10, every single day for a year. My body was in constant fight-or-flight mode. In three weeks back at work after we started, I did what I would normally do in two to three years in revenue. At 60% capacity."โ Per, Senior Executive
"I went from stuck not scoring, afraid to scoring my first professional hat-trick against the best team in Switzerland in front of my parents and my 94-year-old grandfather. I play out of courage now. Not fear."โ Theo, Professional Footballer
"I was at the point where I had decided I did not want to be here anymore. I thought about ending my life. And then something made me reach out. What I found was that I was worth far more than the story I had been telling myself. I am still here. My kids still have their dad. And I wake up every day now knowing I took the wheel back."โ Adrian, Dedicated Dad
"I was stuck in survival mode. Business collapse, breakup, babies. I broke the unconscious patterns. New business went to $100K per month in 3 months. The shift is priceless."โ Brendan, Entrepreneur
What you will move through
The Journey
Each month builds on the last. Tools stack. Patterns dissolve. By the end you will not recognise the ceiling you were living under.
Month 1
Foundation
This is where it all begins. You will meet the other men in your group, set your intentions and create an accountability partnership with a fellow member who will walk the journey alongside you.
You will understand for the first time exactly why change has felt so hard. Not because you lack willpower or discipline, but because of how your brain is actually wired. Once you see this clearly the resistance stops feeling like a personal failing and starts feeling like something you can finally work with.
You will also begin to understand where you are in your development as a man, what that means for how you show up in your relationships and your work, and what becomes available to you when you stop performing and start leading from the inside out.
Month 2
Inner Leadership
You cannot lead a business, a family or a relationship from the outside if the inside is running on old unchecked patterns. This month you will identify the parts of yourself that have been quietly in charge and decide consciously which version of you gets to lead going forward.
You will learn how the words you use every day, with yourself and with others, are either building your reality or quietly dismantling it. And you will put a daily practice in place that keeps your nervous system steady, your focus sharp and your energy pointed at what actually matters to you.
By the end of this month you will have stopped reacting and started responding. That is a different man entirely.
Month 3
Navigating Conflict
Most men either blow up or go quiet when things get difficult. Both cost them. This month you will finally understand the patterns that pull you into conflict and keep you stuck there, and you will learn how to step out of them without blowing up the relationship in the process.
You will learn how to set boundaries that honour who you are, not boundaries that come from anger or fear, but ones that come from a clear, grounded sense of what you will and will not accept. Boundaries that actually hold because they are rooted in self respect rather than reaction.
You will build the ability to hold a firm position while keeping the conversation open. To say what needs to be said without saying too much. To stop abandoning yourself in the moments that matter most.
By the end of this month difficult conversations will no longer be something you dread. They will be where you build trust and earn respect.
Month 4
Emotions as Your Superpower
You were never taught that your emotional state is information. You were taught to manage it, suppress it or push through it. This month changes all of that.
You will learn to read what is actually driving your decisions beneath the surface and shift it deliberately. Your emotions stop controlling you and start working for you. You will know when to push, when to pause and when something inside is pointing you toward or away from a decision. Other men call it instinct. You will know exactly how to use it.
You will also uncover why so many high performing men feel stuck and unseen despite doing everything right, and where that pattern actually started. Most men say this is the month they finally understand themselves.
Month 5
Communication and Roots
This final month ties everything together. You will walk away with a clear, practiced ability to communicate in the moments that matter most. When something is breaking down. When trust needs rebuilding. When you need to be heard without shutting the room down or walking away from it.
And then we go to the root. Because beneath every pattern we have explored across this programme there is a story that started long before you were old enough to question it. Understanding that story, with compassion rather than blame, is what makes everything else permanent rather than temporary.
This is not the hardest month. It is the most freeing.
5 to 8 November ยท Optional Add-On
Activating Your Power
Men's Retreat
Five months of transformation deserves to be celebrated with the men who stood beside you through every week of it.
Four days in nature at Healing Acres, Chandler Oklahoma, a luxury location, extraordinary food and celebration experiences designed around one idea: you have done the work. Now you get to enjoy what that feels like.
No performance. No healing sessions. No agenda. Just brotherhood, presence and the open air. Just men meeting each other, finally as the versions of themselves they came here to become.
Separate investment ยท Limited places
I realised everything was coming from my childhood. I had spent three years telling my psychologist we didn't need to go there. That I'd had a perfectly normal childhood. It turned out to be the most powerful work I have ever done in my life.
โ Per, Senior ExecutiveHonest Words
This is for you.
This is not.
This is for you if:
- You value yourself and are willing to look honestly at what has not been working
- You are high-performing on the outside and know there is a gap between who you are at work and who you are at home
- You have a history of pushing through but your body, your relationships, or your results are sending signals you can no longer ignore
- You want to give back. To be the kind of man, father, partner and leader who actually changes the rooms he walks into
- You are done performing and ready to become
- You are willing to do the work, even when it is uncomfortable, because you understand the cost of staying stuck
- You want to break cycles that started long before you understood what they were
This is not for you if:
- You are looking for a quick fix or a motivational injection that fades by Monday
- You want someone to tell you what to do without doing any internal work yourself
- You are not willing to be honest with yourself, even a little
- You believe that asking for support is weakness, if that story is running, it is exactly what we work on here but you have to want to look at it
- You are not ready to commit. The men who transform are the ones who decide, fully, that they are in
- You are looking for a large anonymous group where you can stay invisible
From the men themselves
What they would say
to you, right now.
"Don't be so stubborn and I mean that seriously. Once you decide to have better for yourself, better is going to come. Doing this work doesn't mean you're not strong. In fact it improves your strength. It changed my life. I'm sure it'll change yours."โ Theo, Professional Footballer
"I would 100% recommend it. But you have to commit. If you commit halfway, don't do it. This is not a basic programme. This is advanced for men who are actually ready to do the real thing. Come prepared to be honest with yourself."โ Per, Senior Executive
"If you want to change your life, start here. She has cracked the code so you don't have to go through all the dark nights of the soul yourself. She took one for the team. She went through the darkness and came back with a map. So we don't have to."โ Gab, Entrepreneur
"I felt like I could reconnect with who I actually was as a child, which is your purest form. We went back. We rewrote the story. And I finally got to step out of the armour I had been wearing for decades. That's where the lightness comes from."โ George, Business Owner
Who is leading this
Mish.
A woman who coaches men.
That is intentional.
Because the version of you that you are afraid to show in front of other men, you will find the safety to bring it here.
The men who have worked with her describe it as the permission they never knew they needed. To be honest. To be complex. To be more than the armour they have been wearing since boyhood.
She has worked with professional athletes, business owners, fathers navigating divorce, men on the edge of burnout and men who had privately stopped believing things could change. Every single one of them will tell you the same thing. It was the hardest work they have ever done. And they would not take it back for anything.
She is not interested in your performance. She is interested in you.
She taught me that you can't do this work and stay the same. It started in here and then everything out there started to shift. Every aspect of my life changed since the very first call.
โ Gab, EntrepreneurThe invitation
Are you
ready?
There are a limited number of places in this cohort. Small group, by design. Because the depth of this work requires it.
If something in this page has moved something in you, that is not a coincidence.
Apply to Join The New Man Codes
Program begins 4 June 2026
Runs to 29 October 2026
Thursdays
60 minutes per call
Replay available
Small group only
This is the work.
